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Listen and Love
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Romans 15:2
“Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up.”
“You cannot Love People without Listening to Them.”
Love begins with listening
Every act of love is rooted in the simple yet profound choice to pay attention. When you truly listen, you signal to someone that their thoughts, feelings, and stories matter. This attentive presence forms the bedrock of trust, intimacy, and genuine connection.
Why Listening is Non-Negotiable?
Presence: Giving undivided focus shows you value the other person’s time and being.
Empathy: Through empathy you step into another’s world, feeling alongside them.
Understanding: Words carry layers — listening uncovers emotions, needs, and unspoken truths.
Validation: Reflecting back what you hear affirms that their inner life is real and reflected.
The Cost of Being Unheard
When people aren’t listening, they drift toward isolation, walls go up, defensiveness takes hold, and love withers under the weight of misunderstanding. Overtime, repeated neglect of listening breeds resentment more poisonous than any harsh word.
Cultivating Deep Listening
✅ Silence Your Inner Narrator Pause judgments and solutions. Let curiosity, not critique lead.
✅ Ask Open-Ended Questions Invite stories, feelings, and reflections rather than yes— no answers.
✅ Mirror and Paraphrase Repeat back key points to confirm accuracy and show your tracking.
✅ Embrace Pause Allow comfortable silences — they give space for deeper truths to emerge.
✅ Notice Nonverbal Cues Eye contact , posture shifts, and tone all reveal what words alone cannot.
Beyond The Conversation
Listening isn’t just about gathering information — it’s a silent pact of mutual openness. When you listen without agenda, you invite the other person to lower their shields. In turn, that vulnerability enriches your bond in ways no grand gesture ever could.
Sunday, June 15, 2025
Cultivating Gratitude and Presence in Life
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There’s something radically liberating in realizing that life isn’t something you’re owed but a gift you get to unwrap each morning. When you shift your stance from entitlement to gratitude, a few powerful things happen:
- You stop chasing more and start savoring what you have. For instance: ✅ Instead of “I deserve a bigger house,” you notice how the sunlight plays on your coffee cup or tea. ✅ Instead of “Why isn’t my life perfect?” you catch yourself smiling when a friend surprises you with a kind text.
- You choose presence over distraction.
✅ Entitlement breeds restlessness—you’re always eyeing the next pleasure or status symbol.
✅ Gratitude anchors you in the now: you’ll find depth in the simplest moments, like listening to rain on the roof or feeling your heartbeat.
- You transform obstacles into gifts.
✅ Hardship feels unfair when you believe you’re owed an easy path.
✅ But when life’s a gift—complete with sharp edges—you learn to polish rough moments into wisdom and resilience.
- How to cultivate that sense of “gift mindset”?
✅ Morning gratitude pause: Before you scroll your phone, name three small wonders—For instance: warmth from a lamp, the taste of breakfast, a memory that makes you smile, a walk with your favorite creatures, etc.
✅ Evening reflection: Jot down one challenge you faced and the unexpected lesson it brought.
✅ Service ritual: Volunteer or help someone without keeping score. You’ll feel firsthand how generosity reminds you of your own abundance.
- As you make these practices your own, you’ll notice a curious freedom: the less you demand, the richer life feels.
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The Finest of The FINEST Moving Pictures of 2024 & 2025
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You don't want to miss some of the movies of 2024 and 2025, or maybe the majority of them if you are an avid fan going into the movie theater to see your favorite celebrities. Huge years for film making. You can check out these websites to have an idea what are the movies of 2024 and 2025 that you might like to watch or re-watch on big screen if it is still available and can also watch them through TV, DVDs and through other sources. https://www.menshealth.com/entertainment/g63422468/best-movies-2025/
There are also tons of movies through TV movie and streaming program that are immensely captivating stories. If you like TV movies and streaming programs you can check out Hallmark Channel https://www.hallmarkchannel.com/movies and its streaming program at Hallmark Plus https://www.hallmarkplus.com/ Anything you love about Hallmark it's on Hallmark Plus. Like TV Series, Mysteries, Dramas, Rom-Cons, Faith and Family, and most especially Christmas movies. Enjoy and explore some great movies and reality TV shows with different story telling and don't forget to grab some snacks like pop corn. 😍
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